My wife cheated on me with a younger man and I won't even consider forgiving her - but my own mother has made me feel guilty for wanting to leave

A man has been left torn over whether or not to leave his wife of ten years after she cheated on him on a trip to Butlins.

The anonymous man, who is from the UK, shared on Reddit that whilst his wife had phoned him on tears during her girls trip to confess she'd had sex with a man 10 years her junior the night before. 

Despite her remorse and immediately coming clean, he revealed he is 'not even considering forgiving her'. 

The couple. who have been together 10 years, share a seven-year-old daughter, and the husband revealed his own mother is urging him to to throw away his family over a mistake. 

She pointed out that his wife seems 'genuinely remorseful' and it's 'not like she had an affair', leaving him confused over what to do.  

A man has been left torn on whether to leave his wife of ten years after she cheated on him with a younger man at Butlins (stock image)

The 39-year-old man explained that his wife, 33, had approached the man the bar and when he spotted her wedding ring she lied quipping that she was getting a divorce.

She revealed to her husband, who she shared a seven-year-old daughter with, that she wanted to 'see if she still had it' but took it too far.

Elaborating on her antics, she revealed that she met the man who was a decade younger and began flirting and dancing with him.

However, things quickly progressed as she was 'charmed into kiss', which eventually led to them going back to her hotel and engaging in extra-marital affairs.

Defending the younger man, she confessed to her husband that he wasn't 'pushy or weird'.

Divulging the vulgar details to her husband in her distressed state, she admitted that they had sex multiple times and continued on-and-off for three hours before she asked him to leave her room. 

The woman has begged for her husbands forgiveness, stating that she had no idea what had come over her.

'She’s begging me not too, offering marriage counselling, never going out again, never drinking again etc etc,' he penned.

After she went into vulgar details about her sordid affair, the hubsand was adamant he wanted to leave her - but now he is torn after his mother urged him to 'think of [his] family' before taking action

'I’ve always been a one chance sort of guy. I just told her to go f**k herself and have been ignoring her since about 10am.' 

Since, her friends and sister, who were also on the three night getaway, have told the man they were absolutely clueless to her antics.

But after a comment from his mother, telling him it wasn't 'like she had an affair' and urging him to 'think of [his] family', the father feels insane wondering if he is wrong for not trying to make amends with his wife.

Many Redditors flocked to the comment section with support for the anonymous man, with several agreeing that he was right to leave her. 

'Trust is broken- You are not wrong. Some will do marriage counselling, but I personally couldn’t forgive this,' one wrote

'3 hours of deception is a long time and she knew it was wrong.' 

A second penned: 'You are not wrong. If all it took were a couple drinks and a charming guy to get her to throw away her relationship and her family, it ain’t worth.' 

Another chimed in: 'She is 33 not 18 to be having overwhelming feelings she can’t control.'

'There might be forgiveness, but there's no forgetting,' a fourth user quipped.

'She told her ap that she was going through a divorce. Time to make an honest woman of her and divorce her,' one commented.