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Tragedy as mother, 33, dies after choking on food while cooking dinner in front of her partner and young children

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A mother tragically died after choking on food while cooking dinner in front of her partner and young children.

Support worker Siobhan Rose Simmonds, 33, was discovered on the kitchen floor after she collapsed while preparing a meal for her family at their home in Dover, Kent, on February 24.

Ms Simmonds, known to loved ones as 'Bon' and 'Bonnie', was rushed to William Harvey Hospital, Ashford, but passed away on March 1 after spending a week in a coma.

Her family said they were 'so proud' of their 'blue-eyed girl' after they discovered that she was registered as an organ donor when she died.

John Simmonds, her father, said: 'She was so lovely, she was so bubbly, would help anybody. Everybody tried to help her survive but she just choked. It could happen to anybody.'

Ms Simmonds' partner, his son and her two-year-old daughter witnessed the tragic incident and said their 'whole world has come crashing down'.

Siobhan Rose Simmonds (pictured with her youngest daughter), 33, was found unresponsive on the kitchen floor on February 24

Siobhan Rose Simmonds (pictured with her youngest daughter), 33, was found unresponsive on the kitchen floor on February 24

The support worker, from Dover, was taken by ambulance to William Harvey Hospital, Ashford, but remained in a coma until she passed away a week later on March 1

The support worker, from Dover, was taken by ambulance to William Harvey Hospital, Ashford, but remained in a coma until she passed away a week later on March 1

After spending a week in hospital, the family were told she would not be able to survive.

Shocked relatives and friends have launched a crowdfunder to help Ms Simmonds' family.

It has already smashed the £3,000 target and relatives said they were 'proud' of her decision to donate seven of her organs to help other people.

Ms Simmonds, also a mother to a 14-year-old boy, had expressed her wish to donate her organs on at least four occasions. 

After being made aware at the hospital, the family agreed to the decision, with Ms Simmonds entering theatre for organ removal surgery on March 2.

Her sister, Julie Barrett, said she was 'devastated' by the tragedy.

But she added: 'We're so proud of her. It's the one thing that's made us happy from all this.'

Her heart, two kidneys, liver, pancreas and both corneas were transported to various recipients across the country.

Ms Simmonds' father added that because she had donated so many organs, it was as if 'out there somewhere, she's still walking'.

The crowdfunding appeal has been launched to cover the costs of the funeral, and to support both her children.

Ms Simmonds' heart, two kidneys, liver, pancreas and both corneas were transported to various recipients across the country

Ms Simmonds' heart, two kidneys, liver, pancreas and both corneas were transported to various recipients across the country

Shocked relatives and friends have launched a crowdfunder to help Ms Simmonds' family. Pictured: Siobhan Simmonds

Shocked relatives and friends have launched a crowdfunder to help Ms Simmonds' family. Pictured: Siobhan Simmonds

It stands at £3,270 at the time of writing and her family said some would be given to mental health charity Mind.

The crowdfunder said: 'We are utterly devastated to share our heartache at losing our blue-eyed girl, Siobhan Rose Simmonds.

'On the evening of the 24th February, our beautiful Siobhan (Bon, Bonnie) died after tragically choking on food during a family meal.

'Unfortunately, this was witnessed by her young daughter and partner and his son. The whole world has come crashing down for those who adore her.

'Paramedics attended quickly but her heart had stopped. They worked hard to restart her young heart and were successful, but for Siobhan it was too late: she did not wake from her coma and was declared dead a week later on the 1st March 2024 at 1447hrs.

'The critical care staff at William Harvey Hospital kept her heart beating as she was an organ donor. She was taken for surgery in the early hours of Saturday morning and donated her pancreas, liver, both kidneys and lastly her heart.

'Those of you lucky enough to have met Siobhan will remember the loving nature she inherited from her parents, Bernadett and John. The hospital told us that Siobhan elected to donate her organs at least four times during her short life.

'Less than 1,400 people per year donate their organs in the UK. We take solace in the amazing gift you gave Bonnie! We can't wait to hear the success stories of people and families whose lives will be transformed from your generosity.

Ms Simmonds was a support teacher in Dover and had her first child at the age of 17

Ms Simmonds was a support teacher in Dover and had her first child at the age of 17

Despite being a young mother, Ms Abate said: 'Siobhan was such a tender mum. She was always dancing, playing and teaching her children. She was a natural.' Pictured: Siobhan Simmonds

Despite being a young mother, Ms Abate said: 'Siobhan was such a tender mum. She was always dancing, playing and teaching her children. She was a natural.' Pictured: Siobhan Simmonds

'Siobhan was a mother to two children, a 14 year old son whom she adored and a two year old daughter who, like her mum, is also a fighter, having been born at only 29 weeks. We hope that this fund will contribute to both of their futures and a charity close to our hearts, Mind.

'Siobhan was a naturally caring and special person who with her quirky sense of style loved life and life loved her. Her love of music and her wicked sense of humour made her a loveable person. Her courage and thoughtfulness made her deeply cared for by all that knew her.

'Siobhan would probably hate this post asking for any help with funeral costs but we could really do with anything to help give our Bon the send off she deserves.'

One of her eight siblings, Susan Ababte, 46, said: 'Siobhan was a very funny child and grew up to be such a funny adult. She always wanted to make people laugh.

'When I walked down to the theatre with her when she donated her organs I have never felt so proud in all my life. There was no hesitation from any of the family because we knew it's what she wanted to do.'

Ms Simmonds was a support teacher in Dover and had her first child at the age of 17.

Despite being a young mother, Ms Abate said: 'Siobhan was such a tender mum. She was always dancing, playing and teaching her children. She was a natural.

'We are all completely devastated. We have a lot of siblings but there are none to spare.'

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