Tube4vids logo

Your daily adult tube feed all in one place!

Social media is urging man to break up with his girlfriend who 'wants to try something in the bedroom'

PUBLISHED
UPDATED
VIEWS

A Reddit user turned to the community to ask for advice when his girlfriend wanted to 'try something in the bedroom.'

'My gf has had a lot of group sex in her past, and I didn't like the idea of it, but I never shamed her for it...,' he wrote on March 7.

'I did tell her that it made me uncomfortable and didn't want to think of her having sex with other guys, especially in a group.'

Despite his feelings, the original poster's  girlfriend told him that she wanted to try a threesome. The threesome his girlfriend is hoping for is with another guy.

'I said no, and I told her that if she ever suggests something like that again then I'm breaking up with her,' he wrote.

A Reddit user turned to the community to ask for advice when his girlfriend wanted to 'try something in the bedroom.'

A Reddit user turned to the community to ask for advice when his girlfriend wanted to 'try something in the bedroom.'

The original poster's girlfriend told him that she wanted to try a threesome. The threesome his girlfriend is hoping for is with another guy.

The original poster's girlfriend told him that she wanted to try a threesome. The threesome his girlfriend is hoping for is with another guy.

Nearly two weeks after his girlfriend made the suggestion, the OP gave a shocking update regarding her bedroom idea.

'I asked her why she thought it'd be appropriate to ask me to have a threesome when I told her I don't even want to hear her talk about it,' he wrote.

'She said she wanted to see if I changed my mind about them.'

From there, he made it clear to her that it was something that he would not change his mind on and that she needed to accept it.

She upsettingly told him that she was 'fine' with not having group sex, but that came crumbling down the moment he asked what she preferred.

'I then asked something I probably shouldn't have, and asked if she preferred group sex to me. She said "yes,"' he wrote.

The poster claimed she had told him early in their relationship that it's better to have sex with a person someone cares about rather than group sex.

However, it turned out, her thoughts on sexual encounters had changed.

The heartbroken boyfriend 'took some time away' from his girlfriend after their conversation. He shared his story on Reddit, with many offering advice

The heartbroken boyfriend 'took some time away' from his girlfriend after their conversation. He shared his story on Reddit, with many offering advice

Social media users have been urging the man to break up with his girlfriend and have commented that the pair are 'not compatible' with one another

Social media users have been urging the man to break up with his girlfriend and have commented that the pair are 'not compatible' with one another

'She said she did believe what she said at first, but didn't realize that she would miss group sex so much, and now she's craving it,' he revealed in his post.

'I'll be honest, straight up hearing group sex is better than sex with me crushed me.'

The heartbroken boyfriend 'took some time away' from his girlfriend after their conversation. He shared his story on Reddit, with many offering advice. 

In the end, he decided to call it quits, and his group-sex-deprived girlfriend is now his ex.

'Maybe it's and ego thing, but I don't want to be with someone who rather have sex in a group than with me,' he wrote.

'I'll be honest, I don't think I'll ever date anyone who's had group sex ever again.'

Although he admitted to feeling 'sexually inadequate,' social media users are now praising him for kicking his girlfriend to the curb. 

The OP received more than 5,000 comments on his initial Reddit post. The reactions on his update are continuing to rise in user reaction amount

The OP received more than 5,000 comments on his initial Reddit post. The reactions on his update are continuing to rise in user reaction amount

Several Reddit users commented that her choosing group sex over him was 'a red flag.'

'She prefers short term gratification over a loving relationship. You were 100% right in ending it,' one person wrote.

Others have repeatedly commented 'good for you' and have expressed joy for the man that 'made the right decision' for himself.

'You had your boundaries. She had hers.,' a Reddit user wrote.

'I'm sorry how hurtful of the stuff you were told was - but you saved yourself a lot of mental anguish by handling it in a mature open way - so you should be proud of yourself.' 

Comments