Woman reveals the bizarre system she and her husband use to initiate sex: 'If it's lit after 7pm, this is your green light'

A woman has shared how she and her husband initiate intimacy in the bedroom. 

Influencer Jessiika Wilson, from Brisbane, shared with her 71,600 followers earlier this week that she uses a candle to communicate with her husband Philip that she wants to have sex.

She explained how the simple system works: If the candle is lit after 7pm, that's the signal for her beau to make his move.

Jessiika admitted the concept began after being too 'scared' to ask her husband for sex.

'I used to be frigid, okay? I used to be so frigid,' she said in her video.

'I never used to make the move, the first move. You wouldn't catch me dead making a first move in my marriage.

'I would just wait for [him] to come to me... And if he didn't, even if I wanted him to, I just lay there,' Jessiika added.

After realising the lack of communication wasn't working, the influencer came up with the candle solution.

Influencer Jessiika Wilson (pictured), from Brisbane , shared with her 71,600 followers earlier this week that she uses a candle to communicate with her husband Philip that she wants to have sex

How the simple system works: If the candle is lit after 7pm, that's the signal for her beau to make his move

'We had to introduce something else, something to help open a conversation without physically being like, "I want you to f**k me",' she continued.

'I put a candle next to the bed and I was like, "If this is lit after 7pm, this is your green light. This is my move, my signal, so that you can come in and make the move".'

The woman went on to encourage her 'frigid' followers to follow the method with their partners.

'If you are also a frigid b***h who wants to get laid, but doesn't want to ask for it, light a candle. Let him know,' she said.

Jessiika admitted the concept began after being too 'scared' to ask her husband for sex

'If the candle is lit, so is my c**t.'

Jessiika is a Queensland-based influencer who shares content about her home and family life.

She also owns Bloom Store, a company that sells photo albums, baby books and keepsakes.