Glamorous relationship coach who has helped HUNDREDS of women to find love reveals why having sex on the first date is the BIGGEST mistake you can make if you want to bag a boyfriend

A Playboy cover model who claims to have helped hundreds of women find a man has revealed that the golden rule is never having sex on first date.

Katie Flowers, from Las Vegas, calls herself the real-life Hitch - referring to the matchmaking character played by Will Smith in the film of the same name.

The relationship coach, who has also been featured on the cover of FHM, claims people of all genders ask for her advice on how to bring sensuality back into the bedroom. 

Her specialty is not just to pair people for love but to also help them have better sex.

A Playboy cover model who claims to have helped hundreds of women find a man has revealed that the golden rule is never having sex on first date

Katie Flowers, from Las Vegas , calls herself the real-life Hitch - referring to the matchmaking character played by Will Smith in the film of the same name 

'Most women contact me asking for help to spice things up because they want to save their marriages,' Katie explained.

'They need advice on how to bring sensuality back into the bedroom.

'I've helped people looking to regain their confidence after divorce, widowers, couples seeking to spice up their relationship, and those who want to explore things like bondage and sensory deprivation.'

So, what's the secret to good sex? According to Katie, it is all about relishing small moments of intimacy.

Elaborating further on why touch is such a big deal, she explained: 'Maybe you just pat his thigh or give him a wink.

'If you're in line at Starbucks, whisper something sweet in his ear.

'If you're driving down the road and he's getting irritated because of the traffic, gently stroke him.

'Show affection for his love language - find out how he feels loved.'

Her cardinal rule for new lovers though? No intercourse on the first date. 

She said: 'Sex on the first date? No way!

'Explore your [date's] content, find out his favorite colors and maybe leave the acrobatics in bed for the third or fourth date.

'Everything should be done calmly. If you hire my services, you want a partner for life, not a quick fling.

The relationship coach, who has also been featured on the cover of FHM, claims people of all genders ask for her advice on how to bring sensuality back into the bedroom 

So, what's the secret to good sex? According to Katie, it's all about relishing small moments of intimacy 

'But if you're going to ignore my advice, at least protect yourself!

'I graduated to be a [relationship] coach, but before that, people were already looking for me to ask for love advice.'

The Playboy model also shared five other things to consider when you're dating someone new - self-awareness, compatibility, communication, love language and family dynamics.

She said: 'Consider [things like] compatibility in children, family responsibilities and overall family values.

'Ensure shared goals, interests and values with the potential partner.

'Understanding and effectively communicating, including identifying and respecting each other's communication styles [is also important].'

As for Katie herself, she is currently active on the dating scene and she prefers 'personality over superficial traits.' 

She added: 'My first and most recurrent partner is moi [myself]!

'I mean, come on, you've got to love yourself before you can sprinkle that love elsewhere, right?

'I've never taken that walk down the aisle, but trust me, I've had my fair share of boyfriends and mingling adventures.'