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We ditched our stressful life in Cornwall to live on a yacht with our children but it's not all plain sailing

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A British couple have packed in their overworked schedules to live on a 42ft yacht -but it's not all plain sailing.

Having grown tired of their 9-5s, Laura, 43, and Ross Colledge, 39, from Cornwall, decided to sell their house and splashed out on a £100,000 yacht. 

For the last five years, the pair have been sailing around the Greek islands with their two sons, nine-year-old Noah and Josh, 12, who are unconventionally schooled.

After buying their 2005 Bavaria 42 yacht in 2018, the couple began darting between Newquay and Plymouth to sharpen their boating skills, and since ended up further afield. 

But the bold move has not come without struggles with Laura admitting: 'Sailing life is very changeable so getting a work/life balance is tricky. Maintaining any kind of routine is a challenge.

Pictured: The Colledge family enjoying the Greek sun

Pictured: The Colledge family enjoying the Greek sun

Laura, 43, and Ross Colledge, 39, from Cornwall, decided to sell their house and splashed out on a £100,000 yacht. Pictured above is their son

Laura, 43, and Ross Colledge, 39, from Cornwall, decided to sell their house and splashed out on a £100,000 yacht. Pictured above is their son

Son Noah enjoying time with one of the family's cat in his gorgeous room while doing schoolwork on a laptop

Son Noah enjoying time with one of the family's cat in his gorgeous room while doing schoolwork on a laptop

Former PT Laura, who has fibromyalgia, working out in the living area

Former PT Laura, who has fibromyalgia, working out in the living area

'You have to be able to "go chameleon" when the weather or other circumstances demand a change of plan'.

She added that it can take its toll on relationships too, saying: 'Sailing life is a 24/7 pressure cooker at times and you not only have to learn to pick your battles, but also where you will and will not compromise.'

That said, the couple would not swap their new lifestyle for the world after becoming disillusioned with the hectic pace of life in the UK.

Laura and Ross, who are directors of Sailing Holly Blue on YouTube and BoatFit Online Health and Fitness Coaching, decided to take the leap after reevaluating their lives.

The former PT and online coach said Ross was working in excess of 50 hours a week as a partner in a fire installation company.

'We were like ships in the night,' she said. 'Ross felt our children's formative years were slipping away before our eyes and he was missing so much.

'We wanted to be able to better meet Josh's extra educational needs, as he has ADHD and is suspected high-functioning autistic, while providing them with an exciting, adventurous, non-consumerist upbringing that would make them more worldly'.

Laura said: 'Ross was working 50 plus hours a week and we were like ships in the night. He felt our children's formative years were slipping away before our eyes and he was missing so much'. Pictured: Ross, Noah and Josh

Laura said: 'Ross was working 50 plus hours a week and we were like ships in the night. He felt our children's formative years were slipping away before our eyes and he was missing so much'. Pictured: Ross, Noah and Josh

Laura remarked: 'Relationship-wise, you will soon learn if the person you are with is your soulmate'

Laura remarked: 'Relationship-wise, you will soon learn if the person you are with is your soulmate'

'Ross remortgaged our newly-renovated house and took a gamble on a boat we'd stepped on and loved a few months earlier, when we were just browsing marinas.

'We have both been water babies as surfers and kayakers in Newquay for many years so the ocean has always drawn us in.'

The plan was for Laura to fly to Cyprus with the boys while Ross began a three-month sail to meet them from the UK. 

Ross said: 'Laura has fibromyalgia, which is a Central Nervous System condition triggered by stress, so we originally wanted an ocean-based life to be healthier on the whole.

'But while Laura and the boys were in Cyprus she experienced a massive flare-up due to the stress of leaving our old life and me navigating dangerous seas.

'She had to spend a couple of weeks in hospital'.

In the end, the couple changed their plan and decided to meet in Greece in June 2019 so they could be back together sooner.

They fell in love with the country and never left.

Laura said: 'We started our journey as a family in Mykonos. We sailed through the Aegean and Dodecanese Islands and eventually came to find a slower pace of sailing life here in the Ionian Islands'.

Over the course of their five-year adventure, Laura and Ross have upgraded and renovated their yacht.

While the parents are very happy on their yachtm Maintaining any kind of routine is a challenge. "You have to be able to â¿¿go chameleon' when the weather or other circumstances demand a change of pl

While the parents are very happy on their yacht, they admit: 'Maintaining any kind of routine is a challenge. You have to be able to "go chameleon" when the weather or other circumstances demand a change of plan

Laura said, of her and Ross: 'We have both been water babies as surfers and kayakers in Newquay for many years so the ocean has always drawn us in'

Laura said, of her and Ross: 'We have both been water babies as surfers and kayakers in Newquay for many years so the ocean has always drawn us in'

She continued: 'Some of it has been self-funded but most of it has been through collaborations with our channel and social media accounts.

'We have completed numerous upgrades to improve our living experience. We've included solar power, lithium ion batteries, a watermaker and other mod-cons that mean we can live completely off grid, utility bill-free and self-sufficient if we choose'.

Ross is captain of the family's boat and Laura is first mate.

Noah is currently homeschooled, while Josh attends an online virtual secondary school.

The family has expanded with addition of their two cats Ronnie and Smidge – whom they adopted while on their travels in Greece.

And their adventure is only just starting.

She added: 'Once we achieve residency here in Greece we plan to spread our wings further afield.

'One day we would love a bigger boat as the boys become teens and we start to run out of room'.

After buying their 2005 Bavaria 42 yacht in 2018, the couple began darting between Newquay and Plymouth to sharpen their boating skills

After buying their 2005 Bavaria 42 yacht in 2018, the couple began darting between Newquay and Plymouth to sharpen their boating skills

The couple 'wanted to be able to better meet Josh's extra educational needs, as he has ADHD and is suspected high-functioning autistic, while providing them with an exciting, adventurous, non-consumerist upbringing that would make them more worldly'

The couple 'wanted to be able to better meet Josh's extra educational needs, as he has ADHD and is suspected high-functioning autistic, while providing them with an exciting, adventurous, non-consumerist upbringing that would make them more worldly'

As for their mental health, the mother says there's 'nothing more grounding than being so close to nature and at the mercy of elements.

'All other things become so trivial. And relationship-wise, you will soon learn if the person you are with is your soulmate.

'Your relationship deepens to an incredible level and your respect, as well as admiration for each other strengthens too.

'It's also great to be able to choose who we socialise with and when.

'The boys have friends, young and old, from all over the world.'

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