Bride-to-be details BITTER feud with her sister that was sparked after disagreement over flower girl dresses for the wedding

A bride-to-be has detailed her bitter feud with her sister that was sparked after a disagreement over flower girl dresses for the wedding.

The unnamed woman, from the US, took to Reddit's popular Am I The A**hole thread to unravel the situation and ask other readers for advice.

She explained that she had initially wanted a child-free wedding but agreed to let her two nieces be flower girls during the ceremony after her sister kicked up a fuss.

But she has been regretting her decision ever since now the siblings have clashed over what they can wear. 

The unnamed woman, from the US, took to Reddit's popular Am I The A**hole thread to unravel the situation and ask other readers for advice 

In the post, which was shared earlier this week, the woman began: 'I am getting married in one month and my partner and I already have a one-year-old together who will be one of our flower girls. 

'My sister, a mother of two girls, threw a fit when I said I wanted a kid free wedding and stated that the right thing to do would be to ask her kiddos to be flower girls. 

'I decided I didn't really care that much and decided to make her two girls and my daughter the flower girls for our wedding.'

She candidly continued: 'My sister and I are super different. I'm a very simple person who likes laid back clothing and a make up free vibe. 

'My sister is a girly girl who loves to wear dresses and doesn't skip a day without make up. It's safe to say that our kids follow in their respective parent's foot steps.

'When I sent my sister the flower girl dress options she said she didn't know if her girls would like them. 

'I started looking for more and landed on a dress that I really liked and had sizes for all three girls.

'My sister ordered the dresses and sent me a picture with her girls scowling in a photo wearing the dresses saying they wouldn't smile wearing the dress.'

She explained that she had initially wanted a child-free wedding but agreed to let her two nieces be flower girls during the ceremony after her sister kicked up a fuss (stock image)

The bride-to-be then did her best to accommodate her sister's demands but her efforts still fell flat.

'I told her I'd keep looking but that I really wanted simple flower girl dresses so any dress I pick would be a similar vibe,' she continued.

'My sister proceeded to order more dresses full of bows and tutus in a different color than what I'd wanted. She also picked a dress that didn't have a size that would fit my baby. 

'She then sent other dresses that would fit babies that she said I could buy that were completely different than what I wanted.'

The exasperated woman concluded: 'I reminded her that it was my wedding and I really wanted the girls to wear simple dresses since my wedding dress is so simple and she told me that she was doing her best and there is a way to make everyone happy. Am I the a**hole for pushing her on this?'

The post was quickly flooded with comments as most users agreed that the bride was not the one in the wrong.  

The post was quickly flooded with comments as most users agreed that the bride was not the one in the wrong 

One person wrote: 'NTA. Why are you letting your sister highjack your wedding? Tell her she has made this too stressful, you're going with the original dress you picked out, and that's it. 

'Tell her the nieces are NOT invited. It's child free. She can stay home with them. You need to stay strong, it's ok to say no. 

'Make yourself happy - this is your wedding. Shine up your spine, take control and have a great wedding, exactly the way you want it!!'

Another commented: 'NTA. Your sister bullied her daughters way into your wedding. 

'Either your nieces wear the dress you picked out, or they don't have to be flower girls. Weddings bring out the worst in some people, and usually it's a member of your family.'

A third person added: 'NTA. Tell her thank you for offering her girls as flower girls, but since they don't seem like they will enjoy being in the wedding, you will go forward with your original plan to have just your daughter as a flower girl.'

Other users instead offered advice as o ne person wrote: 'This is a good opportunity for those little girls to learn that the world does not revolve around them' 

Other users instead offered advice as one person wrote: 'This is a good opportunity for those little girls to learn that the world does not revolve around them. 

'Mom needs to tell them, "a wedding is soo special for the bride that she gets to plan it how the hell she wants to" (Maybe not in those words).'

Another commented: 'Maybe consider letting all the flower girls wear their own dresses so they are comfortable? Is it really worth all the fuss? The bride getting to be a dictator thing is so old and so unattractive.'

A third person added: 'I would have a long, difficult talk with the girls, AND their mom - to make sure everyone is on the same page.'