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Sexpert reveals very simple ways to tell if your partner is faking their orgasm

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Women who fake orgasms to keep their man happy may be storing up trouble if he finds out, according to a leading model turned relationship coach.

Covergirl and self-described orgasm expert Katie Flowers claims to have helped hundreds of women find a man but warns that dishonesty in the bedroom erodes the trust that builds a long-term relationship.

And while they may think their acting skills are up to the job, they may be fooling themselves if they think they can keep their partner in the dark because the signs are easy to spot.

'Don't underestimate the power of your intuition,' the sexpert advises men. 'If something feels off, it probably is.'

Katie Flowers has nearly 400,000 followers online and has appeared as a cover girl on Playboy and FHM during her modelling career

Katie Flowers has nearly 400,000 followers online and has appeared as a cover girl on Playboy and FHM during her modelling career 

She also works as a relationship expert and has brought hundreds of couples together

She also works as a relationship expert and has brought hundreds of couples together

Surveys suggest that three quarters of heterosexual woman have faked an orgasm at least once, while 20 percent do it on a regular basis.

And Flowers believes that histrionic moans, squeals and screams are not the signs of success that men should look out for.

Flushed cheeks, smiles and eye contact are likely to be a much more reliable guide.

'Genuine pleasure is marked by authenticity and spontaneity,' she told the New York Post.

Surveys find that three quarters of straight woman have faked orgasm at least once

Surveys find that three quarters of straight woman have faked orgasm at least once

'Look for signs that signal a natural and unscripted experience.'

'At the core of every meaningful relationship lies a foundation of honesty and vulnerability,' she added. 'Fake orgasms not only erode this foundation but also perpetuate a cycle of misunderstanding and dissatisfaction.'

A 2022 study at the University of South Florida found that woman who make more money than male partners are twice as likely to fake an orgasm in the bedroom.

The research, published in the journal Social Psychological and Personality Science found that the more women perceived their partner's sense of masculinity as fragile, the more anxiety and communication difficulties they experienced.

And that in turn predicted a lower rate of orgasms and sexual satisfaction.

But some scientists have found evidence to support the 'fake it til you make it' school of thought, including Dr Michael Barnett of the University of Texas.

His 2019 study found that re-enacting the lead-up to a real orgasm, with the quicker breathing, noises, and hip movements, can push women 'over the threshold'.

But he found crucially that faking it does not work if it is only done to appease the male ego.

And men of course are not beyond a bit of fakery themselves with a quarter of men having admitted to faking their own orgasms in one Canadian study.

Flowers advises that straightforward communication and honesty is the best way to maximize everybody's satisfaction in the bedroom

Flowers advises that straightforward communication and honesty is the best way to maximize everybody's satisfaction in the bedroom 

‘True intimacy is about connection, not performance,' she advised

'True intimacy is about connection, not performance,' she advised

But Flowers advises that straightforward communication and honesty is the best way to maximize everybody's satisfaction in the bedroom.

'True intimacy is about connection, not performance,' she said.

'Focus on building a deeper connection with your partner and savoring the shared experience.

'Knowledge is power, and understanding the complexities of human sexuality can help you navigate intimate encounters with confidence.'

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