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All the signs Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck were headed for divorce

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Jennifer Lopez finally confirmed the rumors that have swirled for months when she filed to divorce her husband Ben Affleck on Tuesday.

The shocking legal documents, which were obtained by DailyMail.com, were filed just over two years after the 55-year-old singer and actress and the 52-year-old actor and filmmaker tied the knot in Las Vegas in July of 2022.

But the two — who will have to agree on a way to divide their $640 million net worth without a prenuptial agreement — have been swamped by signs of trouble in paradise for a considerable time before Jennifer decided to make their split official.

In the final months of their marriage, they had been seen in increasingly awkward and tense public encounters that, in hindsight, signaled that their marriage was potentially doomed.

Below, DailyMail.com takes a look back through the sad final days of JLo and Ben's marriage to highlight the signs that they were cruising toward divorce.

 
Jennifer Lopez finally confirmed the rumors that have swirled for months when she filed to divorce her husband Ben Affleck on Tuesday; pictured together at the Mother premiere in May 2023 in LA

Jennifer Lopez finally confirmed the rumors that have swirled for months when she filed to divorce her husband Ben Affleck on Tuesday; pictured together at the Mother premiere in May 2023 in LA

Now, DailyMail.com takes a look back at all the signs that the couple were cruising toward divorce; they are seen as Jennifer appears to snap at Ben at the Grammy Awards in February 2023

Now, DailyMail.com takes a look back at all the signs that the couple were cruising toward divorce; they are seen as Jennifer appears to snap at Ben at the Grammy Awards in February 2023

Ben slams a car door on Jennifer 

In May of 2023, fans of the couple got a surprisingly unvarnished look at the apparent tensions between them during a public outing.

The couple were out and about in Los Angeles and had an awkward moment as they got back in their car.

First, he opened Jennifer's passenger door for her in a seemingly chivalrous display.

But then the stone-faced Ben — who fans thought looked 'stressed' in the moment — let his arm fly and slammed the door shut behind his wife.

She was already safely in the car and out of the way, but the display shocked and disturbed some of JLo and Ben's fans.

It's not clear if there were tensions that day between the two, or if other factors led him to get 'stressed,' but the two didn't betray any sign of tension earlier in the day when they were seen holding hands as they walked toward the car, with Ben sporting a big grin as he carried a large iced coffee, while Jennifer sipped on a smaller hot drink.

In May 2023, Ben shocked fans when he was seen opening the car door for Jennifer, but then roughly slamming it behind her

In May 2023, Ben shocked fans when he was seen opening the car door for Jennifer, but then roughly slamming it behind her

More confusing was the fact that they were seen holding hands while Ben grinned earlier that day

More confusing was the fact that they were seen holding hands while Ben grinned earlier that day 

Awkward display at The Mother premiere 

Shortly after the outing, the couple raised eyebrows when they were seen attending the premiere of Jennifer's film The Mother in Los Angeles.

In an awkward moment while posing on the red carpet, Jennifer could be seen frowning and gesticulating at her husband, who looked angry, though a lipreader later clarified that it was far from an argument.

After they were snapped having their apparently tense conversation, they soon reverted to Hollywood mode with beaming grins and stage-worthy kisses.

A lipreader determined that Jennifer asked Ben if her low-cut top was 'showing too much,' leading him to respond that it looked fine.

Later, when the couple managed to find their right pose, the Air director asked his wife to get a little closer, then he leaned into her ear and said, 'Don't worry, babe.'

To which Jennifer seemingly responded, 'Come close to me.'

The two appeared to have a red carpet argument shortly afterward at the premiere of Jennifer's film The Mother; pictured in May 2023 in LA

The two appeared to have a red carpet argument shortly afterward at the premiere of Jennifer's film The Mother; pictured in May 2023 in LA

However, a lip reader later determined that Ben was easing Jennifer's nerves about her revealing top; pictured in May 2023 in LA

However, a lip reader later determined that Ben was easing Jennifer's nerves about her revealing top; pictured in May 2023 in LA

JLo snaps at Ben at the Grammy Awards

Tongues first started wagging when the pair appeared to have a tense exchange at the Grammy Awards in February 2023, though they both later brushed it off.

Ben's forlorn expression saw him become a meme on the night and a video of Jennifer seemingly snapping at him spread across social media.

The Armageddon star was seen whispering in his wife's ear, before she suddenly pulled away and said something to him with a harsh expression on her face.

But the two were seated next to host Trevor Noah, who was on camera in the middle of the exchange.

As soon as they realized they were being filmed, they adopted blank looks and turned toward the camera. 

Fans who were able to read the couple's lips later theorized that Jennifer had been scolding Ben for not looking 'friendly' or 'motivated' during the ceremony.

Tongues first started wagging when the pair appeared to have a tense exchange at the Grammy Awards in February 2023, though they both later brushed it off

Tongues first started wagging when the pair appeared to have a tense exchange at the Grammy Awards in February 2023, though they both later brushed it off 

Their expressions turned blank once they realize they were on camera. Fans who were able to read their lips later theorized Jennifer was scolding Ben for not looking 'friendly' or 'motivated'

Their expressions turned blank once they realize they were on camera. Fans who were able to read their lips later theorized Jennifer was scolding Ben for not looking 'friendly' or 'motivated'

Ben and Jennifer's somber McDonald's trips 

Late in 2023, Ben appeared to develop a penchant for McDonald's, which wasn't necessarily a surprise for the avowed Dunkin' fan, but it was unusual that his wife Jennifer joined him on several trips to the fast food joint.

The pop star famously maintains an extraordinarily strict diet built around fresh foods and a lack of processed items — aside from protein powder for her daily shakes — yet she was pictured in the passenger seat multiple times as Ben drove through the McDonald's drive-through in October, November and December of 2023.

The Town star was even seen going there as many as four times in two weeks in October.

Jennifer often looked stone-faced, or even outright annoyed, as she sat next to her husband.

Although Ben hasn't said much about his apparent love of fast food, he has been open about his struggles with alcohol addiction.

During a 2018 relapse, his ex-wife Jennifer Garner provided moral support during his hour of need and drove him to a rehab facility — but first, they went through a Jack-in-the-Box drive-through, where she was seen handing him his bag of food before going on their way.

Moving out

Ben was previously reported to have moved out of the $60 million home he shared with Jennifer. 

The mother-of-two was seen house hunting in Beverly Hills without Ben in May.  

'He's focusing on his work and his kids now. Ben already moved out and they'll likely have to sell the dream house they spent two years searching for,' the insider went on to say. 

'They'll never stop loving each other, but she can't control him, and he can't change her. There's no way it could have lasted.' 

It has only been about a year since Lopez and Affleck bought the $60.85 million, 46,000-square foot abode they currently own.

The home — referred to as the 'Wallingford estate' — sits on a five-acre promontory and boasts 12 bedrooms and 24 bathrooms.

Ben was later reported to have moved into a rental property in Los Angeles' tony Brentwood neighborhood.

It's conveniently located for the star, as it is near his ex-wife Jennifer Garner's home, so their children don't have to go far when their committed co-parents do hand offs. 

The duo married in a Las Vegas ceremony in July 2022, followed by a lavish wedding at his Georgia estate on August 2022 (pictured)

The duo married in a Las Vegas ceremony in July 2022, followed by a lavish wedding at his Georgia estate on August 2022 (pictured)

Earlier this year, Ben was reported to have moved out of the $60 million home that he and Jennifer bought together. He moved into a rental property in Brentwood, close to where his children stay when they're with their mother Jennifer Garner; seen with JLo in December in LA

Earlier this year, Ben was reported to have moved out of the $60 million home that he and Jennifer bought together. He moved into a rental property in Brentwood, close to where his children stay when they're with their mother Jennifer Garner; seen with JLo in December in LA

Solo appearances

Fans previously pointed out that the pair had been spending a lot of time apart lately, and attending events without each other. 

Jennifer was pictured stepping out without husband Ben Affleck earlier in May, amid rumors that the Hollywood couple were headed for a split.

The Hustlers star was seen in a casual sporty look as she arrived at a dance studio in Los Angeles accompanied by her crew.

The Gone Girl actor was not present for the outing.

More surprising was when Jennifer went solo to the Met Gala in Manhattan on May 6.

She was serving as a co-chair at the glamorous fundraising event, so many observers were surprised that Ben didn't attend to offer her support during the high-stakes event.

Ben was said to have been working on The Accountant 2 at the time, but asource said he 'decided to call it quits' on his marriage to the singer.

Meanwhile, Affleck was on his own while appearing at The Roast of Tom Brady on May 5th.

During their last outing together, the pair appeared strained, with neither cracking a smile as they grabbed lunch at Cecconi's.

The pair have also appeared tense during previous outings, including when they were embroiled in a heated discussion during their St Barts getaway.

Just months earlier in September, Jennifer was seen looking very tense as she sat in the passenger seat of a car alongside Ben as they drove around Los Angeles.

Lopez was solo for her co-chairing duties at the glitzy Met Gala in New York on May 6, with many surprised that Affleck skipped the event

Lopez was solo for her co-chairing duties at the glitzy Met Gala in New York on May 6, with many surprised that Affleck skipped the event

Graduation party reunion 

Ben and Jennifer appeared to reunite in late May for his daughter Violet's high school graduation party.

The couple arrived together with his mother Christopher Anne Boldt at the party and seemed to put on a united front.

It had previously been two weeks since they had been spotted together at an movie event supporting Ben's ex Jennifer Garner.

However, the acting couple's quick getaway and the aftermath of the party indicated that it was not a substantial reunion.

The two had melancholy expressions on their faces in photos of them snapped at the party, and they didn't display any kind of affection as they walked up to the house together while Ben carried a basket with a gift for Violet, who was later confirmed to be going to Yale in the fall.

The trio left the party together in Ben's BMW, but he drove straight to his Brentwood rental.

Shortly afterward, Jennifer ended the short-lived reunion when she was seen leaving the rental with her assistant in her Escalade, as Ben and his mother stayed behind.

The Greatest Love Story Never Told documentary strain 

Jennifer's decision to release her Amazon Prime documentary, 'The Greatest Love Story Never Told,' in February, which chronicled her love story with Ben, seemingly put a strain on the pair's marriage.

The candid show was the third part of her very public $20 million tribute to Ben, which also consisted of 'This Is Me… Now: A Love Story', a semi autobiographical 'musical rom-com action sci-fi' film and her single, This Is Me... Now.

The source said: 'Ben would never try to stifle [Jennifer]'s dreams or tell her she can't do something that advances her career, even though she can be quite controlling of him.'

They detailed the highs and lows of their rekindled romance in the new documentary, with Ben revealing he initially asked his wife to keep their relationship offline when they decided to give things another ago.

While navigating their reconciliation, two decades following their first engagement, the two-time Oscar winner admitted he had zero interest in becoming a fixture on his wife's social media accounts.

'Getting back together, I said, 'Listen, one of the things I don't want is a relationship on social media,' the actor recalled.

'Then I sort of realized it's not a fair thing to ask. It's sort of like, you're gonna marry a boat captain and you go, "Well, I don't like the water."'

He continued: 'We're just two people with different kinds of approaches trying to learn to compromise.'

Jennifer's decision to release her Amazon Prime documentary, 'The Greatest Love Story Never Told,' in February, which chronicled her love story with Ben, seemingly put a strain on the pair's marriage

Jennifer's decision to release her Amazon Prime documentary, 'The Greatest Love Story Never Told,' in February, which chronicled her love story with Ben, seemingly put a strain on the pair's marriage

The love letters

Ben didn't want his love letters to Jennifer being made public in her documentary The Greatest Love Story Never Told - but insiders claimed it wasn't because he had kept them a secret from his ex-wife.

Jennifer Garner 's fans were left outraged after Affleck, 51, revealed he clung onto his correspondence with Lopez during his 13-year marriage — and later had the letters and emails bound into a book given to the Jenny From The Block singer when they reunited in 2021.

But insiders have quashed any notion that the admission shocked Garner, insisting she is happy for Affleck and Lopez — whom she is friends with — and is also at peace in her relationship with John Miller.

'Ben would love for the outside world not to know about his love letters, but he is a romantic, and as much as he loved Jennifer, he never got over JLo,' a source told DailyMail.com.

'Ben keeps his memories, whether it is from movies he worked on or family and relationship moments, he always has what the kids call 'receipts'.'

They continued: 'No one is surprised by this at all. Jennifer is OK with it, JLo obviously loves it and everyone notices that all this was meant to be.

'Jennifer and Ben have their wonderful children and are both enjoying the relationships they have always wanted to be in.'

Another source said: 'JLo and Jennifer have a good relationship and they have become friends and to think that there is any bad feelings on Jennifer's part about Ben holding onto JLo's letters is just ridiculous.

'They have a blended family and Jennifer happily moved on a long time ago with John and the four of them have spent time together on multiple occasions.'

The insider explained that Garner was always aware of Affleck's fond feelings for Lopez. 

Ben Affleck didn't want his love letters to Jennifer Lopez being made public in her new film The Greatest Love Story Never Told - but insiders have claimed it wasn't because he had kept them a secret from his ex-wife

Ben Affleck didn't want his love letters to Jennifer Lopez being made public in her new film The Greatest Love Story Never Told - but insiders have claimed it wasn't because he had kept them a secret from his ex-wife

'Jennifer knew going into her marriage how Ben felt about JLo and it was not a secret,' they continued.

'JLo and Jen have a lot of respect for each other and Jennifer has told JLo how happy she is that she has come back into Ben's life because she can actually keep him in check. JLo refuses to let him slip into his old ways.'

During the documentary, Lopez stated: 'This book is a book Ben gave me on our first Christmas back together. It is every letter and every mail that we wrote each other from 20 years ago and today.'

She highlighted one note that read: 'The Greatest Love Story Never Told by Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck 2001-2010... and counting...'

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck's relationship timeline: From the early 2000s until now

Rekindled romance: Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez sent the pop culture sphere into a frenzy by rekindling their romance after 17 years apart; Ben and Jennifer pictured in 2003
Rekindled romance: Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez sent the pop culture sphere into a frenzy by rekindling their romance after 17 years apart; Ben and Jennifer pictured on July 3

Rekindled romance: Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez sent the pop culture sphere into a frenzy by rekindling their romance after 17 years apart; Ben and Jennifer pictured on July 3

2001 

Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez first met on the set of their film Gigli in December 2001. 

The movie, upon its eventual release two years later, won seven Razzies and was branded 'unwatchable' by some critics.

It garnered $7.2m in the box office against a reported $55m budget. Yet all was not lost, as the film brought Bennifer closer together.

The beginning: Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez first met on the set of their film Gigli in December 2001

The beginning: Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez first met on the set of their film Gigli in December 2001

 

SEPTEMBER 2002

Reunited: While they were yet to know about their looming box office failure, Bennifer were in front of the camera once more in 2002 as they reunited to shoot the 2004 movie Jersey Girl

Reunited: While they were yet to know about their looming box office failure, Bennifer were in front of the camera once more in 2002 as they reunited to shoot the 2004 movie Jersey Girl

While they were yet to know about their looming box office failure, Bennifer were in front of the camera once more in 2002 as they reunited to shoot the 2004 movie Jersey Girl.

The movie was where their love was cemented and the couple's romance was born.

Their name was in fact born on-set, as Jersey Girl director Kevin Smith said: 'Bennifer' is trending.

'It's a name I first gave the kids during 'Jersey Girl' pre-production, before the world found out they were dating...

'I'd later drop the name in an interview with the @nytimes. Shortly thereafter, it appeared in the article and then entered the vernacular.' 

 

2002 ONWARD   

The duo made their red carpet debut at the premiere of her movie Maid In Manhattan.

From red carpet appearances to Juicy Couture tracksuits, they soon became one of the world's most photographed couples thanks to their Hollywood good looks and glamorous style.

 

NOVEMBER 2002

Engaged: Ben popped the question to Jennifer in 2002 during a visit to see his family in Boston - leading to a delighted surprise; Ben and Jennifer pictured in 2003
Bling, bling: He proposed to her with an eye-popping 6.1-carat pink solitaire diamond from Harry Winston

Engaged: Ben popped the question to Jennifer in 2002 during a visit to see his family in Boston - leading to a delighted surprise; Ben and Jennifer pictured in 2003

Ben popped the question to Jennifer with an eye-popping 6.1-carat pink solitaire diamond from Harry Winston during a visit to see his family in Boston - leading to a delighted surprise.

She described the proposal, saying: 'It's just a blanket, a quilt of rose petals, all over the whole entire house. So many candles, and vases, bouquets.

'And my song I'm Glad was playing... I walk in and I was just like overwhelmed. I wasn't expecting it, and I was just like 'Oh my God.''

Ben then revealed his mother Christopher Anne Boldt helped him with the proposal, after which Jennifer said: 'I just started sobbing. Crying. I was like 'Oh! My God!''

She went on: 'I had cried a lot over sadness over the years. And for the first time in my life, I cried incredible purging tears of happiness...

'It was the most cleansing feeling and the most wonderful feeling I had ever had.'

Later that month, Ben appeared in Jennifer's Jenny From The Block music video including one scene - designed to look like a stealth paparazzi video - showing the actor caressing her famous derriere.

Not content with a video cameo, Jennifer dedicated her sensual and gushing track Dear Ben from her third studio album This Is Me... Then to her husband-to-be. 

 

SEPTEMBER 2003

Postponed: Days before their wedding, the couple astounded fans when they announced a postponement; Ben and Jennifer pictured in 2003

Postponed: Days before their wedding, the couple astounded fans when they announced a postponement; Ben and Jennifer pictured in 2003

Days before their highly-publicized wedding, the couple astounded fans when they announced a postponement due to increasingly feverish media attention.

Their statement read: 'Due to the excessive media attention surrounding our wedding, we have decided to postpone the date...

'When we found ourselves seriously contemplating hiring three separate 'decoy brides' at three different locations, we realized that something was awry...

'We began to feel that the spirit of what should have been the happiest day of our lives could be compromised.

'We felt what should have been a joyful and sacred day could be spoiled for us, our families and our friends.'

 

 JANUARY 2004 

The couple confirmed their split with a simple statement.

Jennifer's representative announced: 'I am confirming the report that Jennifer Lopez has ended her engagement to Ben Affleck.

'At this difficult time, we ask that you respect her privacy.'

 

2004 - 2005

Later that year, Jennifer sought comfort in her longtime friend, Marc Anthony, explaining: '[I wanted to] find someone who could make me feel loved and wanted in my loneliest hour...

'Thinking back, maybe deep down I knew that this was a Band-Aid on the cut.'

She married the singer that June and went on to have twins with the star in 2008. She divorced Marc in 2014.

Ben meanwhile wed actress Jennifer Garner in 2005 and they share three children, Violet, 15, Seraphina, 12, and Samuel, 9. The couple split in 2018.

Later that year, Jennifer sought comfort in her longtime friend, Marc Anthony and they wed in June (pictured in 2006)
Ben meanwhile wed actress Jennifer Garner in 2005 and they share three children, Violet, 15, Seraphina, 12, and Samuel, 9. The couple split in 2018.

Later in 2004, Jennifer sought comfort in her longtime friend, Marc Anthony and they wed in June (pictured in 2006) Ben meanwhile wed actress Jennifer Garner in 2005 and they share three children, Violet, 15, Seraphina, 12, and Samuel, 9. The couple split in 2018

 

 2012

Ben made it clear that they very much remained friends, when he told The Hollywood Reporter: 'We don't have the kind of relationship where she relies on me for advice but we do have the kind of relationship where there'll be an e-mail saying, 'Oh, your movie looks great'...

'I remember when she got American Idol. I said, 'This was really smart. Good luck.''

'I respect her. I like her. She's put up with some stuff that was unfair in her life, and I'm really pleased to see her successful.'

 

2014

Two years later, Jennifer told Huffington Post: 'I would do it all over again, I think. I really would. Even the relationship part.

'I just feel like everything is part of your story and your journey and is meant to be and helps you grow if you're willing to look at it, and I'm willing to look.' 

 

2016

Struggles: On making their relationship work, Jennifer detailed why things struggled for the pair

Struggles: On making their relationship work, Jennifer detailed why things struggled for the pair 

On making their relationship work, Jennifer detailed why things struggled for the pair.

She said: 'I think different time different thing, who knows what could've happened, but there was a genuine love there, We didn't try to have a public relationship...

'We just happened to be together at the birth of the tabloids, and it was like, 'Oh my God.' It was just a lot of pressure.'

 

APRIL 2021

After being proposed to in 2019, Jennifer unexpectedly called off her engagement to MLB star Alex Rodriguez in April.

'We have realized we are better as friends and look forward to remaining so. We will continue to work together and support each other on our shared businesses and projects,' read a statement the pair released at the time.

Done! After being proposed to in 2019, Jennifer unexpectedly called off her engagement to MLB star Alex Rodriguez (pictured) in April

Done! After being proposed to in 2019, Jennifer unexpectedly called off her engagement to MLB star Alex Rodriguez (pictured) in April

Shortly after, Ben was seen arriving at Jennifer's home in a white Escalade SUV that is said to belong to the Hustlers star. He was later seen being dropped off by the singer's security.

They had also reportedly enjoyed several meet-ups at the the Hotel Bel-Air around the same time.

TMZ reported that Affleck had reached out to J-Lo via email while she was in the Dominican Republic shooting her rom-com Shotgun Wedding earlier this year.

The pair are said to have continued communicating until Jennifer wrapped up filming in late April, with numerous sources stating that they were 'just friends.'

 

MAY 2021 

Ben whisked his former flame Jennifer away on a private jet this past weekend for a romantic getaway trip to a luxury ski resort in Montana, where the actor is understood to own a chalet.

In exclusive pictures obtained by DailyMail.com, the former couple appeared relaxed and at ease around one another as they sat side-by-side in an SUV, with the Good Will Hunting star in the driver's seat, amid rumors he's been spending time at the singer's LA mansion on multiple occasions.

In pictures of the pair arriving back to LA, both Ben and Jennifer looked dressed for comfort as they stood close together while exiting the private plane following the short trip, where they had packed a considerable amount of luggage.

Rekindled: In exclusive pictures obtained by DailyMail.com, Ben, 48, and Jennifer, 51, appeared relaxed and at ease around one another as they then sat side-by-side in an SUV in Montana

Rekindled: In exclusive pictures obtained by DailyMail.com, Ben, 48, and Jennifer, 51, appeared relaxed and at ease around one another as they then sat side-by-side in an SUV in Montana

Sources claimed to E! that the pair spent 'about a week' together at the club, and they 'were alone' during their stay. 

Following their getaway, Jennifer made several trips to Los Angeles to spend time with Ben, before the Academy Award-winner jetted off to Miami, Florida to spend time at Lopez's home. 

During his stay in Miami, Ben was seen hanging out on Jennifer's balcony smoking cigarettes before joining the superstar for a gym session. 

Sources told In Touch that Ben and Jen 'looked madly in love' during their gym date and 'were clearly picking up where they left off in their relationship years ago.

The insider added: 'They even shared a kiss on the gym floor and were super playful with each other between sets.' 

 

May 31, 2021 - Rekindled romance CONFIRMED

After weeks of speculation and sources claiming the pair had taken their friendship to a 'romantic' level, Ben and Jennifer confirmed the news for themselves during a romantic date night in West Hollywood.

During the outing, Jennifer and Ben had their arms wrapped around one another while waiting to be seated at Wolfgang Puck's new restaurant located at the swanky Pendry hotel

The 51-year-old On The Floor singer had her head nestled into the 48-year-old Academy Award-winner's neck as he held her closely with one arm. 

 

JUNE 2021 

Relocating? Jennifer sparked rumors that she may relocate from Miami to the West Coast for Ben when she was seen touring school in the LA area for her twins Max and Emme, 13; Ben and Jennifer pictured in July

Relocating? Jennifer sparked rumors that she may relocate from Miami to the West Coast for Ben when she was seen touring school in the LA area for her twins Max and Emme, 13; Ben and Jennifer pictured in July

Jennifer sparked rumors that she may relocate from Miami to the West Coast for Ben when she was seen touring school in the LA area for her twins Max and Emme, 13.

A source told The Sun at the time that Lopez was 'looking towards LA' and that her Miami house reminds Lopez too much of her ex and Los Angeles is perfect for a fresh start as it's convenient for her TV work and photoshoots, which more often take place on the west coast.

In the meantime, Jennifer hunkered down in her $28million mansion in LA and enjoyed several visits to Ben's Brentwood home throughout the month. He also seen leaving her Bel Air abode on several occasions.

Proving their rekindled passions, Jennifer and Ben were spotted kissing one another on June 15 as they attended JLo's sister Lynda's 50th birthday dinner in Malibu.

Also present were Max and Emme, who Ben was seen bonding with during the family gathering at Nobu restaurant.

 

SUMMER 2021

Blending families: With their relationship in full force, Jennifer and Ben have been working to blend their families

Blending families: With their relationship in full force, Jennifer and Ben have been working to blend their families

Further blending their families, Ben and Jennifer decided to enjoy a day out at Universal Studios Hollywood ahead of the Fourth Of July holiday.

The couple, who walked with arms wrapped around one another, were joined by Lopez's twins, as well as Affleck's nine-year-old son Samuel. 

They would then jet out of Los Angeles to celebrate the Fourth Of July in the Hamptons, along with Lopez's daughter Emme and a pal. 

On Thursday, July 15, Ben was spotted driving his girlfriend around as he helped her on her 'hunt for a mega-mansion' in Los Angeles, according to TMZ, further fueling rumors that she plans to relocate to be closer to the actor.

 

JANUARY - MARCH 2022 

With their rekindled relationship moving from strength to strength, Ben and Jennifer began their 'hunt for a mega-mansion' in the Los Angeles area.

They were photographed on a number of occasions checking out sprawling properties across the city.

In late March, TMZ reported that the happy couple are 'in escrow' on a massive $50M mansion with 10 bedrooms and 17 bathrooms in swanky Bel Air  

On March 23, Ben supported his pop star girlfriend at the iHeartRadio Music Awards in Los Angeles, where she was honored with the coveted Icon Award.

He was seen sitting in the audience with Jennifer's daughter Emme, 14, and his young son Samuel, nine. 

Major moment: On March 23, Ben supported his pop star girlfriend at the iHeartRadio Music Awards in Los Angeles, where she was honored with the coveted Icon Award

Major moment: On March 23, Ben supported his pop star girlfriend at the iHeartRadio Music Awards in Los Angeles, where she was honored with the coveted Icon Award 

 

APRIL 2022 

Following days of speculation - after she was seen with a huge sparkler on her finger - Jennifer confirmed that she was engaged to Ben for the second time in their relationship.

She confirmed the news in a newsletter shared to her official website on Friday, April 8, which included a touching video that showed her getting emotional as she gawked at her engagement ring.

Earlier in the day, just hours before the news broke, Ben and Jennifer was captured touring real estate spaces in Santa Monica. The On The Floor singer was NOT wearing her engagement ring at the time. 

Emotional: She confirmed the news in a newsletter shared to her official website on Friday, April 8, which included a touching video that showed her getting emotional as she gawked at her engagement ring
Confirmed: Following days of speculation - after she was seen with a huge sparkler on her finger - Jennifer confirmed that she was engaged to Ben for the second time in their relationship

Emotional: She confirmed the news in a newsletter shared to her official website on Friday, April 8, which included a touching video that showed her getting emotional as she gawked at her engagement ring

 

JULY 16, 2022

Jennifer and Ben tied the knot in Las Vegas on July 16, 2022 which was three months after becoming engaged again and 20 years after the actor first got down on one knee. 

The Selena actress, 52, confirmed they said 'I do' on her newsletter On The JLo, where she shared details of their intimate wedding held at the Little White Wedding Chapel.

The newsletter was signed 'Mrs. Jennifer Lynn Affleck' and included candid selfies of the newlyweds and video of the couple preparing for their special day, including one of Ben getting ready inside the chapel's bathroom and photos of J.Lo in her wedding dress. 

'We did it. Love is beautiful. Love is kind. And it turns out love is patient. Twenty years patient,' she wrote in her post. 

Just married! Jennifer and Ben tied the knot in Las Vegas on July 16, 2022 which was three months after becoming engaged again and 20 years after the actor first got down on one knee

Just married! Jennifer and Ben tied the knot in Las Vegas on July 16, 2022 which was three months after becoming engaged again and 20 years after the actor first got down on one knee

Newlywed bliss! The newsletter was signed 'Mrs. Jennifer Lynn Affleck' and included candid selfies of the newlyweds and video of the couple preparing for their special day, including one of Ben getting ready inside the chapel's bathroom

Newlywed bliss! The newsletter was signed 'Mrs. Jennifer Lynn Affleck' and included candid selfies of the newlyweds and video of the couple preparing for their special day, including one of Ben getting ready inside the chapel's bathroom

'And this was my wedding changing area!' Ben, wearing a white suit, declared as he held the camera up to a scratched-up mirror

'And this was my wedding changing area!' Ben, wearing a white suit, declared as he held the camera up to a scratched-up mirror 

Blushing bride! JLo wore a quaint white dress in video posted to her newsletter. She appeared to be wearing two different white dresses in her post

 Blushing bride! JLo wore a quaint white dress in video posted to her newsletter. She appeared to be wearing two different white dresses in her post

'Exactly what we wanted. Last night we flew to Vegas, stood in line for a license with four other couples, all making the same journey to the wedding capital of the world. Behind us two men held hands and held each other. In front of us, a young couple who made the three hour drive from Victorville on their daughter's second birthday—all of us wanting the same thing— for the world to recognize us as partners and to declare our love to the world through the ancient and nearly universal symbol of marriage.

'We barely made it to the little white wedding chapel by midnight. They graciously stayed open late a few minutes, let us take pictures in a pink Cadillac convertible, evidently once used by the king himself (but if we wanted Elvis himself to show, that cost extra and he was in bed).

'So with the best witnesses you could ever imagine, a dress from an old movie and a jacket from Ben's closet, we read our own vows in the little chapel and gave one another the rings we'll wear for the rest of our lives. They even had Bluetooth for a (short) march down the aisle. But in the end it was the best possible wedding we could have imagined. One we dreamed of long ago and one made real (in the eyes of the state, Las Vegas, a pink convertible and one another) at very, very long last.

'When love is real, the only thing that matters in marriage is one another and the promise we make to love, care, understand, be patient, loving and good to one another. We had that. And so much more. Best night of our lives. Thank you to the Little White Wedding chapel for letting me use the break room to change while Ben changed in the men's room.

Mr and Mrs: JLo shared details of their special day and signed the statement from 'Mrs. Jennifer Lynn Affleck'

Mr and Mrs: JLo shared details of their special day and signed the statement from 'Mrs. Jennifer Lynn Affleck' 

Here comes the bride! JLo did several twirls as she showcased her white dress
Here comes the bride! JLo did several twirls as she showcased her white dress

Here comes the bride! JLo did several twirls as she showcased her white dress

VIP! Jennifer's 14-year-old Emme looked thrilled to be attending the nuptials

VIP! Jennifer's 14-year-old Emme looked thrilled to be attending the nuptials 

'They were right when they said, 'all you need is love'. We are so grateful to have that in abundance, a new wonderful family of five amazing children and a life that we have never had more reason to look forward to. Stick around long enough and maybe you'll find the best moment of your life in a drive through in Las Vegas at twelve thirty in the morning in the tunnel of love drive through, with your kids and the one you'll spend forever with. Love is a great thing, maybe the best of things-and worth waiting for.'

The content included a video of Ben preparing for their nuptials inside the chapel's pink bathroom.

'And this was my wedding changing area!' Ben, wearing a white suit, declared as he held the camera up to a scratched-up mirror.

Big day: The A-lister took a selfie before a scratched-up mirror as he prepared for his special day

Big day: The A-lister took a selfie before a scratched-up mirror as he prepared for his special day 

Could be more glamorous! Affleck showed off the pink bathroom he was getting ready in

Could be more glamorous! Affleck showed off the pink bathroom he was getting ready in 

Jennifer, however, had more luxurious accommodations. She wore a chic yet simple chic dress with her hair styled in waves as she got glammed up inside an elegant bathroom.

'I feel amazing, excited,' Jennifer said before doing several twirls in her dress.

The bride appeared to be wearing two different white dresses in her post - the sleeveless frock and a more traditional lace garment which flashed some cleavage. She tucked a veil into her cascading waves. 

The couple collectively known as 'Bennifer' obtained a marriage license in Clark County, Nevada on Saturday and exchanged vows in a 'super small' ceremony. 

Jennifer will also be taking Affleck's last name. The Clark County Recorder's Office shows the pop star will be changing her name to 'Jennifer Affleck.' The marriage certificate, however, has yet to be filed. 

Marriage officiants have 10 calendar days to submit the certificate to their office for filing, according to the Clark County Clerk's Office. 

Marital bliss: Lopez shared a shot of herself lying in bed to her Instagram Story on Sunday and added the Barbra Streisand track Sadie, Sadie in the background

Marital bliss: Lopez shared a shot of herself lying in bed to her Instagram Story on Sunday and added the Barbra Streisand track Sadie, Sadie in the background

AUGUST 2022

Ben and Jennifer tied the knot for a second time in a breathtaking wedding ceremony at his $8.9 million Georgia 'plantation' mansion surrounded by family, friends and A-List celebrities in August of 2022.

The celebrity couple known as 'Bennifer,' wowed the audience with Lopez wearing a stunning white, Ralph Lauren couture gown complete with long train and veil, while Affleck looked sharp in complementary white and black tuxedo.

Photographs shot from above showed the picture-perfect A-listers embracing one another through smiles at a waterside jetty, outside their enormous mansion, and while walking along a snowy white altar set up especially for the day.

Ben and Jennifer tied the knot for a second time in a breathtaking wedding ceremony at his $8.9 million Georgia 'plantation' mansion surrounded by family, friends and A-List celebrities in August of 2022

Ben and Jennifer tied the knot for a second time in a breathtaking wedding ceremony at his $8.9 million Georgia 'plantation' mansion surrounded by family, friends and A-List celebrities in August of 2022

The pair's happy reunion came 20 years after they first dated and got engaged, only to call-off their wedding in fall 2003, blaming excessive media attention.

The couple was followed down the aisle after their nuptials by close friends and family, including their children from Jennifer's third husband Marc Anthony, as well as Affleck's first wife Jennifer Garner.

Garner was notable for her absence, with Affleck's brother Casey also declining to attend after saying he had prior parental commitments in Los Angeles.

 

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