I told my fiancée I'll leave her if she gets bigger breast implants

A man has questioned if he is in the wrong for making his fiancée choose between him or her body as he admitted that he threatened to leave her if she got bigger breast implants.

The 29-year-old - who did not share his name online - took to Reddit to unleash a furious rant about his 36-year-old lover's obsession with plastic surgery. 

He explained that she wanted to get a third boob job as he told the web that he wanted to break up if she went under the knife again. 

In a thread titled Am I The A**hole, the man revealed that her decision to get even bigger implants struck a nerve with him because it is not something the 'person [he] fell in love with' would do.

He begged people on the web to advise him on how to proceed as he pondered whether ditching his soon-to-be wife would make him an 'a**hole.' 

A man has questioned if he is in the wrong for making his fiancée choose between him or her body as he admitted that he threatened to leave her if she got bigger breast implants (stock image)

The post was titled: 'Am I The A**hole for telling my fiancée I'll leave her, if she gets bigger breast implants?' 

At the beginning of the post, he explained that he had been with his fiancée - who he dubbed as Laura - for five years after meeting on a dating app.

After the couple dated for a few years, they eventually moved in together and got engaged. 

However, things have since turned sour. 

'Since then we have been living together and we have been engaged for two years now, although no plans for a wedding yet. 

'Overall, we're on the same page regarding life, values and beliefs. We're living childfree and focusing on our health, careers and shared and not-shared interests.

'When we met, Laura already had breast implants put in. She got her first ones after graduating in her 20s and was honest with me about them from the beginning. 

'Literally on the second or third date she straight up told me she had fake t**s. No problem for me, it's her body and her choice and I respect it. I love her either way,' he explained. 

The 29-year-old - who did not share his name online - took to Reddit to unleash a furious rant about his 36-year-old lover's obsession with plastic surgery 

He noted that her boob job at the time looked 'natural' and that she had them done because she originally had boobs that were smaller than an 'A cup.' 

The 29-year-old added: 'We have talked about things regarding her decision and cosmetic surgeries in general, and we both think cosmetic surgeries are unnecessary, when going too far and building something unnatural - and they only should be done safely and with good taste. 

'She has told me she got the size on the smaller side, because she wanted to keep as natural a look as possible. During our time together she has gotten one boob job, which I helped to pay for.' 

Following her second boob job, his fiancée decided that she wanted to get an even bigger boob job that would take her breasts 'up a few sizes and add a lot of Cs.' 

He explained that his issue with the most recent surgery suggestion was that they would be 'unproportionate to her body.' 

'I don't understand why she wants to do such a surgery. The idea feels alien and I can't believe what she has decided on. When I heard about how big she wanted to go, I was genuinely shocked and thought she was joking. 

'It's not going to be good. It's not just the unnatural look issue that worries and angers me, but also the fact that too big implants can be damaging for health and the surgery is risky itself. 

'I'm genuinely worried about her and I can't understand why she wants to get big ones. We have discussed the matter and she has explained her decision. She wants bigger t**s in order to look "better," according to her, she claims it is what she wants,' he noted. 

People on the web flooded the comments section and ran to the defense of the 29-year-old

At the end of the post, he revealed that he made it clear to his partner that he would leave her if she went ahead and went under the knife. 

He added: 'I told her I will leave her if she decides to get the big ones she's planning. I never thought I was going to have to make such a decision, but for me it feels like I don't know her at all anymore. 

'I thought we agreed on keeping our bodies natural and healthy - and if she decides to get those gigantic breast implants, that's not the person I fell in love with neither on the outside or the inside anymore. I told her I leave her if she gets bigger breast implants.' 

He then questioned if he would be the 'a**hole' for leaving if she got a boob job.

People on the web flooded the comments section and ran to the defense of the 29-year-old.

One person said: 'Since it's something you've discussed at length before, I can't see why you wouldn't comment on it now. Best for her to know where you stand, I should think. Normally, I wouldn't side with someone giving unsolicited advice, but this seems to be an ongoing convo, so I'll say not the a**hole.'

Another user added: 'I think she is well within her rights to get implants. Her body her choice. You are also well within your rights to not accept it. Not the a**hole.'

Someone else wrote: 'Not the a**hole. She has her choice, you have yours.'

One user commented: 'Not the a**hole. She changes her looks in a way you don't find attractive, plus health and security reasons. 

'Not your fault, or anybody's fault what the like or dislike in other humans is. It just is. Attraction that is. No one controls it.'